Category: social and emotional well being

“We Don’t Talk Anymore”: The Silent Crisis Destroying Relationships in Plain Sight

Emotional disconnection in relationships is becoming one of the most common reasons couples feel lonely, distant, and misunderstood. Many people still deeply love their partner but feel emotionally invisible, exhausted, or unable to communicate honestly anymore. Sometimes there are no huge arguments. No dramatic endings. Just silence, distance, and the painful feeling of becoming strangers to each other. As a psychotherapist and relationship therapist, I often see couples who say: “We live together, but we don’t really connect anymore.” The good news is this: emotional connection can be rebuilt. With understanding, honesty, and the right support, relationships can heal even after years of emotional distance. If you are struggling with feeling disconnected from your partner, this article will help you understand why it happens and what practical steps can help. What Causes Emotional Disconnection in Relationships? Emotional disconnection rarely happens overnight. Most couples slowly drift apart while trying to survive the pressures of modern life: Many people were never taught how to express vulnerability safely. Instead of saying: “I feel lonely.” They say: “You never listen.” Instead of: “I miss feeling close to you.” They withdraw emotionally. Over time, emotional intimacy in relationships starts to disappear. The relationship becomes practical

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Personality Tests

The best personality tests are ones that explore all parts of the self, and my favourite is the Briggs Myers Personality Test. I have found that it has been the most accurate reflection of those who have taken it. There are plenty of other tests that explore your emotions, attachments styles and love languages. If you enjoy taking tests and would like to learn more about your personality in general then contact me and we can explore all parts of your personality so that you become more self aware and emotionally intelligent. 😊

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Publications

Publications by Kamarun Kalam of Talkwell Counselling Service. Articles published on Medium.com by Kam.

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Beautiful Quotes

Welcome When reading quotes our hearts feel moved and inspired, our souls connect with the words written and our minds capture the beautiful imagery within the meanings. Much of this motivates and encourages change within us that empowers us to become the best possible version of ourselves. To become our true authentic selves.

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Hajj the Journey of a Lifetime

https://youtu.be/zEqmeTRApkk This video says it all- a beautiful and spiritual journey of hearts and souls undertaken by millions of muslims annually. It was my calling in August 2019 as I undertook the holy pilgrimage. I filmed highlights of my time out there. Nothing can compare to it. It must be experienced to fully understand the impact it has on hearts. It certainly affected me in a profound way and has helped me to become a better version of myself in the process.

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Patience & Gratitude

Being Patient and Grateful improves mental health Its not often we stop to reflect on our blessings and show gratitude. As a species we have evolved into very busy beings, and with such little time for contemplation we have lost patience with ourselves and others. I would like to take this opportunity to invite you to stop, and just be. Seriously just sit for a minute -don’t do anything and try to think about one thing you are grateful for in your life. Got it? Ok now think about one thing you could do for someone else that would make them happy. It doesn’t have to be a big gesture it could be a smile, running an errand or visiting for a chat. The idea is that you appreciate what you do have instead of focussing on what you don’t have.  Also to carry out an act of service for another person encourages connection, love and warmth. We are all in need of a bit of love, care and belonging to feel human. Accepting who we are and being accepting of others is key to a more satisfying life. Nobody is perfect but we can all be our own kind

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